Love Them Both Partners

Love Them Both Gardens are a special Mother’s Day Program of Louisiana Right to Life that match donors with moms who are pregnant or have an infant in need. Each family is represented by a flower a tag on a display or an online listing that shows the family’s needs and gift wishes without sharing personal details.

Donors choose a flower, purchase the requested gifts within a set budget, and return them by April 30th. Referring partner groups then collect and distribute the gifts to families before Mother’s Day

The purpose is to make sure moms in our communities are supported and pro-life people are able to give to moms in a tangible, personal way.

Helping Moms In Need Recieve Gifts

Referring Partner organizations help identify moms in need, gather their wishlists, and ensure gifts are delivered with dignity and care. Pregnancy Centers and Pro-Life Groups with established programs to help moms are eligible.

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Become A Referring Partner

Community Helping Mom & Baby

Hosting Partner organizations provide the space needed to connect donors with moms in need. Churches, schools, and businesses host the Love Them Both Garden display and invite donors to adopt moms by filling their wishlists.

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Become A Host Partner

Many women choose life when they feel supported. When a mom receives essentials like diapers, clothing, or a car seat, along with a message of encouragement, she experiences a reminder that she is not alone. This kind of support reduces fear that leads to abortion, strengthens family bonds, and reinforces the message that choosing life is possible.

By partnering with us as a referral or host partner, your organization helps create a community where mothers feel empowered. This is a powerful expression of the Love Them Both philosophy, which seeks to uplift both mother and baby as valuable members of our human family.

Your Role as a Partner Organization

1. As a Referral Partner You Identify Moms Who Would Benefit

You are invited to refer moms who are pregnant and/or parenting an infant and facing financial or emotional hardship.

You know your clients personally, so you are the best guide in determining who needs this help.

2. Share the Intake Form

You will receive an online form to give to your clients. The form allows moms to:
• Use initials, a first name or a nickname
• Select a big ticket item if needed
• Choose baby essentials and items for themselves
• Indicate their preferred contact method
• Share any special needs or concerns

You may help moms complete the form if needed.

3. Arrange Gift Pickup or Delivery

When the gifts for your referred moms are ready, your team will receive them. Partner organizations are responsible for ensuring moms receive their items in the way that fits them best. You may:
• Schedule pickup at your office
• Deliver items directly to the mom if appropriate
• Arrange a neutral pickup point

We will label each gift clearly and work with you on timing.

Program Timeline

March

Referring partners begin identifying moms
They share the intake form
They assist with form completion
Submission deadline is March 31

Early April

Wishlists finalized by Louisiana Right to Life
Tags are distributed to Host Partners
Donor adoption begins
We all prepare for May distribution

Mid to Late April

Donors shop for wishlist items
College groups help fill remaining small item needs
Care cards written by donors or volunteers for each mom

Early May

Gifts finalized and picked up by or delivered to Referring Partners
Referring Partners distribute to moms before Mother’s Day

Have questions? Email ashlen@prolifelouisiana.org!